Recently, the word "partner" is very popular. There are "meals" for eating, "travel" for going out to play, "exercise" for fitness, and even learning, losing weight and spitting. You can also find "partners" with the same needs on the online social platform. Only you can’t think of it, and there is no "miss". In short, as long as like-minded, everything can be "built" between strangers.
When a reporter typed in "Tie Zi" on a social platform, he saw thousands of posts looking for various "Tie Zi". Suzhou netizen "Ye Zi" is looking for a partner to study. She posted: "Prepare for the exam and find a partner who can study together. I am not strong in self-control, and I hope to supervise, motivate and make progress together with the’ partners’ who also need to take the exam. " The netizen "baa baa" is looking for a travel partner. She hopes to find a partner to climb Mount Tai together during the summer vacation. "It is expected to go to Mount Tai at the end of July. Is there a partner?" Only girls. "
There are also many young people who love food looking for a "meal partner". Citizen Jiang Chen is a food lover. She told reporters: "Sometimes I want to taste a lot of dishes when I see them in a restaurant, but if I can’t finish them all by myself, the expenses will be great." As a result, Jiang Chenmeng had the idea of looking for a "meal partner" on the Internet. After posting on a social platform to list her conditions and requirements, she has successfully made an offline dinner appointment with four netizens. "Friends’ dinners often focus on the emotional communication between the two sides. The meals are all’ food’, and the meal is more focused on tasting food. The cost AA can also reduce the burden." Jiang Chen believes that eating with "rice partners" is purer and can better appreciate the beauty of food.
Mr. Ke, a citizen who likes to play badminton, posted a post looking for a "match", which attracted more than 20 local netizens to reply "apply" in a week. Mr. Ke, who is extroverted, thinks that "partner" socializing is very suitable for him. "I am a foreigner, and it is not long before I came to work in Suzhou. It is a relatively easy start to establish a new social circle in the new place and find a partner."
The reporter learned that the popularity of "partner" socialization among young people stems from the fact that young people are more willing to actively show themselves and expand their social circles, which also simplifies interpersonal relationships and reduces communication costs. This is a kind of temporary and practical communication that doesn’t need to be maintained specially, starting with the joint participation in some interest activities and ending with the cooperation.
However, there are two sides to a coin, and there are obvious disadvantages in finding a "partner". How to ensure personal safety when meeting a stranger, whether there will be property disputes and fraud, etc., also worries netizens.
"I will do my homework when looking for a’ partner’ and make a comprehensive plan. I must understand the basic situation of’ partner’ and must put safety first." The reporter contacted Mimi, a netizen looking for a "travel partner" on the social platform. She said: "I often look for all kinds of" partners "on the platform. The threshold of" meal partners "is relatively low, but" travel partners "are very picky. Whether the two people’s consumption views are consistent or not, whether they can talk together or not, all these need to be examined."
As for how to guard against unreliable "partners", "Mimi" reminds us to pay attention to personal safety and property safety, especially for girls. We should carefully verify the personal information of "partners", identify the real purpose, and beware of people who may plot evil.Reporter Xu Lei